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September 6, 2010 | 0 comments

It occurred to me last night that I am living by lists; grocery lists, errand lists, a bucket list.  Good grief, I start on New Year’s Eve and lay out a plan for the upcoming year, God willing I live through it.  I even have categories.  I even keep a list of the books I read and from what category – fiction, non-fiction. 

This all started when someone talked about having “a program”.  It wasn’t necessary to adhere to it exactly, but to have it in order to save myself from hurry and indecision.  You see, there was a time in my life when I didn’t have lists.  I just jumped from one thing to another like a grasshopper.  “Let’s try this!  Oh, let’s try that!  Oh, what’s that over there?  Looks interesting!” 

It was fun, but made everyone around me dizzy. 

Then I started wondering if this modus operandi had put me in handcuffs. 

Do you ever feel guilty when you don’t complete your “to do”...

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September 1, 2010 | 0 comments

I’ve been reorganizing our storage room filled with shelves of books and family records.  I found a small notebook and recognized my mother’s distinctive handwriting.  It’s a record of trips she and Dad took from 1976 to 1978; motels, restaurants (rated), how many miles they drove.

Two of our children and both of my brother’s children were born during those years.  During that same time, Grandma settled in Merced with my aunt.  Mom and Dad made numerous trips from Brookings, Oregon to the East Bay Area, Central Valley and Southern California.  They drove thousands of miles to keep in touch with those they loved.  They drove and drove. Between trips, Mom also wrote volumes of letters.

They weren’t the first to move away and miss the family they left behind.

Grandma set out from Switzerland.  Grandpa set out from Germany.  Rick’s grandmother came from Sweden through Ellis Island and across country by train to work in San Diego...

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August 28, 2010 | 0 comments

County Fairs are one of those things that you look forward to each summer.  My daughter-in-law and I took my grandson during the first week of the Fair.  He’s at that age where he doesn’t protest going to the arts and crafts exhibits, gardens and flowers, and the pavilion packed with new gadgets, cheap jewelry, homemade peanut brittle and fudge.  We ate our way through the fairgrounds.  Is there anything better than cotton candy and deep fried zucchini, funnel cakes and pot stickers? 

We wove our way carefully through the barns of cows.  “Cow” is a new word for my grandson.  “Moo.”  We saw horses, rabbits, chickens, goats, sheep, guinea pigs, ducks and swans.  My favorite: the sleeping pig and her nursing piglets. 

We saved the best for last: the carnival.  I’m too old for rides, and my DIL wasn’t interested in being tilted and whirled.  She won a white tiger for her little tiger.  Replete with junk food...

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August 20, 2010 | 0 comments

I recently returned from four wonderful days in paradise (Coeur d’Alene, ID) with nine Christian dynamo writers for a “plot, pray and play” retreat.  Brandilyn and Mark Collins host the gathering each year.  Brandilyn came up with the idea of brain-storming sessions some years ago.  I’m a late comer, invited last year after I mentioned to my friend, Robin Lee Hatcher, how much I missed being able to brain-storm with other writers.  I was honored, thankful and excited when Brandilyn extended the invitation to join the group.  

We start each morning with a devotional, presented by one of the members.  Then we sing hymns. (Brandilyn Collins, Tammy Alexander and Karen Ball should make a CD!). The rest of the day is spent in brain-storming sessions.   Each of us has an hour and fifteen minutes to present our WIP (“work in progress”).  Everyone jumps in with ideas.  (Love the “list of 20”.)  The creative energy is amazing...

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August 11, 2010 | 0 comments

The class of ’65 gathered again this year.  We bring along year books and reunion pictures and spend the day laughing as the years fall away.  We started getting together every year when we lost two friends to cancer.  It reminded all of us how time can get away from us, and friendship is important.  We have a great class president who keeps the ball rolling.  Someone always volunteers to host the reunion, and everyone brings something to share.   It always feels as though it’s only been a few weeks since the last time we saw one another.  

Some of these friends and I go back to kindergarten.  My husband, Rick, was a late arrival in fifth grade.  A few others came in high school.  We’ve grown up to become teachers, banker, insurance agent, park ranger, historian and museum administrator, college administrator, social workers, child psychologist, senior citizen advocate, realtor, business owners, just about everything...

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July 28, 2010 | 29 comments

Every year, toward the end of July, I become nostalgic and a little depressed.  In years past, I’d be gearing up for the scenic drive north to visit my parents in Brookings, Oregon – with my three children in tow and plans to arrive on Mom’s August 3 birthday.  Mom always had a jar full of freshly-baked chocolate chip cookies and a big pot of stew waiting for us.

Dad’s health was always precarious, and he often stayed home to rest while Mom and I took the wild ones to the beaches to run off some steam.  While they explored tide pools at Lone Ranch, or collected rocks and drift wood at Whaleshead, Mom and I sat and talked and talked… and talked. 

There are still times when I reach for the phone and realize again – achingly – that she can’t pick up on the other end.  I’ll have to wait until I get to Heaven to see her and Dad again. 

I wonder if there will be beaches.

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July 14, 2010 | 7 comments

My brother and sister-in-law live on sixteen acres in gorgeous Northern California.  The closest town has a population of less than five thousand.  After once through town with its “hemp store”, I now take the scenic highway west -- two very narrow lanes of windy, hilly, tree-lined road.  As if ten miles weren’t far enough from civilization, my brother and SIL chose a place a mile off the road – across a narrow metal bridge with no side railing suspended over a twenty foot ravine with rocky creek bed below.  The bridge is just wide enough to accommodate a pick-up truck.  UPS drivers refuse to make deliveries and leave their parcels with neighbors.

We don’t get to visit often, but we email frequently.  I keep telling him he should write a column for one of the big city newspapers about the life of an urbanite transplanted in rural America.  He writes of “long-eared rats”(deer) invading his garden, shoot outs on main street between rival...

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July 10, 2010 | 17 comments

I just received an ARC (advanced readers’ copy) of the second half of Marta’s Legacy.   The cover is gorgeous!  This book continues Marta and Hildemara’s stories and brings in the next two generations -- Carolyn and May Flower Dawn, whose lives span the 50s to present day.  This half of Marta’s Legacy will reveal the rifts and chasms between these mothers and daughters and what it takes to build bridges to bring them together again.   Her Daughter’s Dream will be in stores mid-September. 

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July 4, 2010 | 9 comments

 

Certain foods bring back wonderful family memories of dinners.  Grandma Wulff always fixed “More” when I visited her at the farm.  The recipe calls for sautéed onions,  browned ground beef, cooked elbow pasta, corn, peas, chopped tomatoes and tomato sauce and spices all mixed together and then topped with cheese (or ketchup).  My brother and I called it “More” because we always wanted more.  Grandma also fixed “pull-apart” bread.  She made dough from scratch, let it rise, punch it down, let it rise again, took bits and roll them into balls, covered them with butter, cinnamon, chopped nuts and raisins and put them in a pan and let them rise again before baking.   We’d sit around the table talking as we pulled off hunks of gooey sweet bread.

My dad favored Grandma’s angel food cakes.  Mom loved her candied almonds. 

Whenever I packed our three children into the car and headed north to Oregon for a visit with...

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June 29, 2010 | 5 comments

Rick and I returned a few weeks ago from three weeks in Europe, two in France traveling by boat up the Rhone River, by bus to Paris and then another boat on the Seine.  The land through which my grandmother traveled is much like Sonoma County, California where we live – though California lacks the majestic cathedrals that took men centuries to build, castles filled with history, Roman Aqueducts and roads from ancient times. 

We both wanted to see Normandy.  My father was in the third wave as an Army Captain, serving as a medic.  His unit also went into Germany and assisted in liberating a concentration camp.  Before the war, Dad dreamed of being a doctor.  After the war, he went into law enforcement instead. Though Mom would like to have made a heritage trip to Europe, Dad never wanted to step foot on foreign soil again -- nor would he talk about what he had seen at Normandy or the camp in Germany. 

Standing on the beach where...

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